I said NO and received healing

When you say no to others, you are really saying yes to yourself. Yes to your healing. Yes to your future. Yes to your soul.

Inconsistency is not a virtue!

I do not mean to attack anyone or point out the flaws of others. Lord knows it would take a few weeks to point out mine. However, I have become disgruntled with the inconsistency I have noticed from people. Let me be clear, this inconsistency has not come from associates or foes. Instead, it cameContinue reading “Inconsistency is not a virtue!”

The side-effects of change!

I am a true believe “all change is good change,”; it does not matter the situation. Change is inherently good because you are growing and evolving. You are making progress to get you closer to your destiny. You are learning those life lessons and earning wisdom. You are healing and stretching and strengthening those spiritualContinue reading “The side-effects of change!”

Real Love!

One of my all-time favorite songs is Real Love by Mary J. Blige. In it, she details her quest for love and describes the genuine love she has been searching for. I completely understand how she felt; as I search for real love. Through the process, I learned some valuable lessons; and gained wisdom onContinue reading “Real Love!”

When being empty is enough!

I know I promised an example of a goal, and it is coming. However, this topic has been on my mind and heart for a few weeks. Here we go: Sometimes, when we feel empty, we automatically assume it is wicked. This happens because; we think of other things (i.e., sadness, loneliness, or heartbreak). WeContinue reading “When being empty is enough!”

New Year- New Goals: 5 steps to help you set the Goals of your dreams

While I am trying to cling to 2016 (for obvious reasons), I understand that 2017 is upon us. This means it is time to start setting our goals for the New Year! Many of us have grown tired of hearing the same clichéd sayings from “New Year-New me” to “leaving that in the prior year.”Continue reading “New Year- New Goals: 5 steps to help you set the Goals of your dreams”

How to heal a broken heart: 5 steps to mend the broken pieces.

The person who discovers how to heal a broken heart, instantly, would become a hero. I am sure that they would win Nobel Prizes, become a billionaire, and get a free trip to Mars. Until this happens the only way to heal a broken heart is through time. Below, I will outline a few helpful tools to use, to make the healing happen a little easier

I am thankful for the Lessons Learned and Wisdom Earned!

I am thankful for the Lessons Learned and Wisdom Earned! Tis the season to be thankful! I genuinely believe Thanksgiving is every day. My family and friends already know that I am thankful, so I don’t want to waste this blog post retelling all of them how thankful I am. Instead, I want to tellContinue reading “I am thankful for the Lessons Learned and Wisdom Earned!”