Friendship should be hard—not hard.

Recently, I tried to make a new friend. Not because there was anything wrong with the friends I already had; but because I wanted a new perspective. I think it is great to have a diverse group of friends. I met someone I thought I could add to this new group of friends. However, theContinue reading “Friendship should be hard—not hard.”

Stop Apologizing!

Stop Apologizing! My name is Antonio, and I am an apologizer. I have learned, over conscious observations, that I apologize for things that do not need or deserve an apology. Usually, these apologies soften the blow of my “NO!” or uncertainty. This concerns my perfectionism; I want people to genuinely like me. Even when IContinue reading “Stop Apologizing!”

Diving into the abyss

We have all had those times. Where we imagine how things could be, so we decide to test the waters. We know that one wrong decision could end everything. However, we become so curious that we decide to leap head first into the abyss of uncertainty. Stepping into uncharted territory.   This has happened toContinue reading “Diving into the abyss”

If people were honest, the world would be a better place.

This blog post is not about truth vs. lie. Instead, this post is about honesty vs. political correctness. It is about those sugarcoated truths that are borderline a lie. Those truths that we try to tell others in hopes that we spare their feelings. We do not understand that those sugarcoated truths are doing everyoneContinue reading “If people were honest, the world would be a better place.”

I dreamed a dream that shall remain a dream!

I am not telling you, to let all of your dreams remain dreams. I am speaking of those dreams that we all know are not completely right. The ones where we see the writing on the wall, and we destroy the wall, because it does not say what we like. These are the dreams that need to stay locked in our head. If we will be completely heartbroken, do not do it.